I heard about this book from friends. I think I was caught up in their enthusiasm, which I was, for the first chapter or so. Then the author got repetative. I really got sick of reading about how much work it took HER; how SHE had to suffer being a single Mom; how bad HER personal relationship was with HER cheating husband. I could have understood her letting me know her trials once or twice, but I think she will never get over these things if she keeps living them endlessly. GET OVER IT SUSAN, and start living a new life!!!